Many times, people lie for no reason. He lied only because he was used to not telling the truth. Eventually it becomes a habit.
So, as parents, we must always set an example by telling the truth when explaining something to our children. Telling the truth is one way to educate good children in the family.
For example, when your child asks why he can’t buy a toy, avoid the classic answer “I don’t have any money.” It’s better to say, “You still have lots of good toys. This time, we’ll use the roroslot money to buy more useful books, okay?” It is hoped that with this example, children will be able to imitate their parents’ honest and open way of speaking.
The parenting style and example that parents provide greatly influences what kind of person their child will become in the future. One of them is the habit of giving to parents which he will imitate. Having generous children is every parent’s hope. However, this attitude certainly doesn’t just come from nowhere.
Charity, lending toys, or sharing food are all examples of good deeds that mothers need to show their children to form a habit of giving. Don’t hesitate to involve your children in various social activities, Mom. Ask children to share toys with their brothers or sisters, or distribute clothes and dolls that are suitable for use to children in orphanages.
For your little one, rules may still feel abstract and unreal. However, he should be introduced to the rules early on. Because wherever children are, from home, school, to the street, children will find rules that must be obeyed.
Children learn from their parents and environment. So, so that children are able to obey the rules, of course parents must set an example first, because children are more likely to learn by imitating.
Not all children are born as friendly individuals and like to greet everyone they meet. To overcome this, Mother can set an example of being polite and friendly to the people she meets. For example, greeting people you often meet even though you don’t know them, such as employees at the minimarket or the garbage man who comes regularly every week
Children will also learn to care about other people when they see those closest to them doing the same thing. So, create an atmosphere of mutual love in the family, and foster a sense of mutual care between family members. Children who grow up in a family that loves each other will grow up to be children who care about other people around them.
For example, throw away rubbish in the right place, be disciplined about sticking to bedtime, or limit using gadgets when hanging out with family. From there, your little one will directly see what his parents are doing. If accompanied by an explanation of the rules and the consequences he will face if he doesn’t do them, it is hoped that your little one will be disciplined.